What to Expect at the House of O

The House of O is not your typical night out. It is a carefully curated gathering — stylish, sensual, and deeply social. Every guest is chosen with care, not for wealth or status, but for the energy they bring. The result? A room alive with people you’ll actually want to meet, talk to, and connect with.

The Main Gathering

  • A social lounge filled with conversation, laughter, and connection.

  • Artistic moments and unexpected experiences unfold throughout the evening.

  • The highlight of mainspace O gatherings isn’t the show — it’s the people. The energy of a group chosen with intention, not elitism.

The Orchid Room

Accessible with an Orchid Ticket.

The room begins with a shared discussion of sex and sensuality, followed by a private erotic show that naturally grows into a shared experience, shaped by the desires of each guest. To be voyeur or participant — that is the question. Guests may watch, connect with their partner, or with someone they’ve connected with at the event.

Guiding the space are our O Guides — trusted members of the House whose role is to keep every guest comfortable, respected, and open to the experience.

  • Women O Guides look after female guests, protecting boundaries, checking in, and helping women feel safe and supported in finding their own rhythm of pleasure.

  • Men O Guides guide male guests toward gratitude, respect, and embodied masculine energy — the qualities that create trust and make deeper connection possible.

  • Queer O Guides support gay, lesbian, bisexual, and nonbinary guests, ensuring their desires and boundaries are equally honored, and that they feel fully welcomed into the space.

Your Contribution

Main Gathering — $300–$500 donation

Full access to the social and artistic experience in the Main Gathering.

Orchid Room Ticket — $500–$1,000 donation

Includes everything in the Main Gathering plus entry into the Orchid Room.

Give what you can within this range — your generosity makes the night possible.

Patron of O — $2,500+ donation

Includes all access plus a patron necklace — a miniature orchid encased in glass — as a sign of lasting support.

Benefactor of O — $100,000 to $1,000,000 donation

A benefactor offering from those helping seed the first permanent Church of O space. Larger donations may include a share of ownership in the Church’s real estate — a lasting legacy in the creation of the temple itself.

The Path In

Every guest is either invited by the House or may apply for consideration. This ensures every gathering is safe, diverse, and alive with connection.